Why do i get upset when he looks at other women?

question but a marital one and I put it in this category because I only want a christian to answer it. And I only want biblical based answers do not give me opinions of man. I know this is not a religious I don't want anyone that is not a Godly christian to answer this question. NO WORLDLY COMMENTS! I talked to my husband today and let him know that when he looks at other women it hurts my heart. Even tho he is not lusting or ogling. It still bothers me that he notices them. I am well aware that my feelings are to a point irrational sounding. My situation does need addressed. I am not feeling the attack of jealousy when he looks, I do know how it feels physically to be jealous. It just makes me sad and sometimes I cry. I love my husband so much and feel like I wished we could just move to a more modest place. But the world is running out of those type of places. I also feel that I don't know if it is a good Idea to seclude yourself from the world. He cant wear blinders and we have to be out in public. How can I be happy and not sad about it? What can I do to be comfortable with the fact that he is just noticing there is something moving and that he is not really doing anything wrong. I am very confident that I am a beautiful person Because God never makes anything ugly. I know my hubby is attracted to me. And I know that I have nothing to worry about. Yet I am still sad. I trust in God to take care of me. And I rejoice in his mercy and goodness. My heart hurts for the girls that are being looked at too since most of them do not know Jesus and don't even know that the way they are dressing is defrauding. DO NOT tell me the cliche about how ALL MEN LOOK. that is dumb. All men are unique. Its very important to me that you give me great prayer ideas and things I can do to rejoice even when it hurts me and makes me sad. My husband is a great man and does not enjoy looking at other women. He would also like some advice. What are some things he can do to be quicker at bouncing his eyes and prayers he can say. And also ideas on how we can warn each other that something inappropriate is in the midst of us and we need to be distracted by God right now. Please be real about this. Only answer in a way Jesus would want you to. And know that I do not think it is ok that I look either. Also can you please tell me what the difference is between seeing and looking. thank you for your help. And your help may help us to improve our marriage and others so please prayerfully answer this question.