If your brothers and father are ''normal'' men apart from?

the fact that they have ogled you sometimes and on ocassion been verbally abusive and support other people when they are. One of the brothers molested you when you were a child. He is four years older. But generally speaking they are normal men; they have normal conversations, and talk on normal issues, have a normal sense of humour. It is just they have been known to ogle me, or look at me in a very sexual unashamed manner. I cannot never say anything when they do this because it will be thrown in my face and they will make me out to be sick as that is how they are.